Do we really struggle hard??

“Success comes easy to some people” ….. Do you think identical?? Well I won’t say that you are completely wrong if you do so but have you made sincere efforts to get what you wanted?? Though not easy, sometimes success can be tasted by struggling hard. However why is it that for some people it always seems a cakewalk to be triumphant?? Let’s try and answer these questions in this post.

So we all feel at some point or the other

in our lives that success comes easy to some while the others have to really work their asses out to get it. The answer to this is simple, “GOD HAS MADE EVERYONE DIFFERENT”. Don’t take my previous statement in a negative sense. Every person has different talents but the trouble comes when we try to do something we are not superior at. Some people are never able to extract their actual talent in life and hence struggle a lot. So what is the solution? Should we all start searching our natural talents right from the time we are at kindergarten?  No. It is not always feasible to do so. You might be good at something which absolutely has no value in this world.

It is not sensible to always go with your flair leaving behind everything else. That is where you have to realize that there is a need for you to work harder than others. However this should be something very confidential in order to prevent your selves from getting exposed. You are the only person who needs to know about it so that you are reminded consistently about it by your sub conscience. Not only will it prompt you to work harder but will also let you know about your limitations and believe me very few people exist who actually know their boundaries at work.

Set small goals and try to accomplish them. Going for the top spot every time won’t help you because you know you are not the right person for the job. However the matter of conceit for you should be, regardless of all that you are achieving success in small quanta and who knows one day you might be more successful than those studs for whom everything seemed way to easy while you were always stressed.

Even if that does not happen then you can lest be assured that you have always taken the right decisions in life instead of making a disaster of going for the easier way out. So it is not the GOD who has made discriminations among people rather it is the world where every talent is not given equal respect and value. If we think practically it is not likely to treat every kind of skill equally. Therefore it is high time we start thinking about our limitations and start working towards improving them because if you are able to do that then you’ll probably end up achieving what even the most talented ones can’t.