Are you STALKING someone????

Do u stalk my profile??? Ever heard that from someone who you actually stalk??? I tell you its the biggest shock that can be given on facebook and the pinch of it is so much that you can hardly lie when you need to lie at the rate of knots. No matter how convincing you try to be, you'll always end up thinking 'how did she come to know' and 'whether she is buying my lies or not'? If you seriously think you can handle such a situation solely by lying then you need to grow up.

Girls are much sharper on this as you think them to be. Asking this question is actually asking you to be a bit more careful when you stalk them next time. But how do I get more careful?? I never commented on any of your posts, pics neither did I like any. Well girls probably have some kind of intuition which can catch you in seconds and once you are caught no one can rescue you. 

However midst all this do we ever wonder if girls also stalk? I know most of you might think silly of me to be asking that question. But actually the truth is not what you think. Stalking is a habit which both sexes have and to be frank it's more prevalant among the one which we don't think to be. But can you ever catch a girl stalking anyone's profile? I don't think any guy has the guts to ask a girl if she stalks him no matter how convinced he is about it. You can't give them that guilty feeling which almost all of us go through. It can be taken as a partiality but that is how the rules of stalking have been laid.

It's like girls have the authority to yell at you whenever such a question is put up to them. Be her your girlfriend or wife who you feel is the most possessive women in the world but still you can't afford to ask her that question. The moment you do so you are in deep shit and it's highly probable that you would be saving yourself on the same issue as the argument progresses.

If we can now come up with a reason as to why girls stalk then the whole ‘funda’ of stalking would be clear. But I think it's the toughest part and you need to really turn you heads into that complicated arena to get what I am going to say in the next few lines. There are various categories as far as stalking in girls goes. You can get those extremes who stalk even more than boys do or the other ones who do it on purpose. Quite obviously girls stalk the profiles of their boyfriends and crushes but it is something which we can generalize for any sex. Apart from this girls are generally very particular about their image and hence scan through the profiles every now and then just to ensure that there is nothing fishy. Now to talk about the former category who take stalking as their hobby I would say they stalk anything and everything. It's like the attention seeker wanting to know how much attention they are expected to get in near future. 

So the next time you stalk or are caught stalking just remember this blog of mine and I am sure you'll be able to handle situations in a better and effective manner. After all no matter who, we all are guilty of stalking at one point or the other. :D